Monday, May 29, 2017

Mini Summer Party

 We kicked off our mini summer party with some fun summer-themed worksheets including a summer crossword puzzle, Popsicle addition worksheet with a secret message/riddle, and a "Mad Libs" summer story.


Beach scene art project:











 Tie-dye project:


 




Baking some treats:



S'mores cups:



Cake in a cup:



They also enjoyed treats of s'mores flavored cinnamon rolls, sugar cookies, mini ice cream cones, and Ice Pops:





Outdoor alphabet scavenger hunt:



Monday, May 22, 2017

Tribute to Ms. Ellen



With Eli's school year wrapping up, I wanted to dedicate this post to his teacher, Ms. Ellen.  Eli truly loved his teacher, and this school year was a great experience for him to begin his full-time school career.  Ms. Ellen has a big heart, loves her students as if they were her own kids, and is very dedicated to the teaching profession.  She helps foster a love of learning and creates enjoyable and engaging educational experiences to help tap into the natural curiosities of young minds. 

When Eli stayed home sick one day and after his first dose of Tylenol kicked in around midmorning, he was feeling better and was begging me to take him back to school!  He was disappointed to realize he would still have to stay home the rest of the day.  My favorite thing about Ms. Ellen is how she encourages even students as young as kindergarten to always do their best.  Eli has a tendency at times to rush through his work and has been required to redo several worksheets.  I love that she instills a good work ethic.  Eli seemed to enjoy math and centers the most throughout this school year.  The theme on pirates was also a favorite of his.  He brought home a lot of souvenirs at the completion of this unit and shared some of the pirate-related vocabulary he learned. 

I think he is saying "arrrr" in this picture:)

Another one of my favorite things about Ms. Ellen was the way she established a strong home-school connection through the homework and other activities sent home to keep the parents involved.  From weekly worksheets with the word of the week to theme-related games, activities, and mini art projects sent home, Eli even seemed to enjoy telling me about what he learned at school by completing these assignments.  I was always surprised by the words of the week they were learning at this age, such as "participate" for the letter "p" but Eli could explain what each of the words meant, so his vocabulary was really enriched over the course of the year.  Some of our other favorite homework activities included the fall leaf coloring game, outdoor fall scavenger hunt, along with the disguise the gingerbread man project. 

Throughout the year, I noticed the most progress made in both reading and writing.  Once Eli had a good grasp of recognizing sight words, he took more interest in learning how to read and really took off by reading mini phonics books I printed out that I found online.  He has really taken more of an interest in trying to sound out words and spell them on his own, which he learned in school.  He knows where I keep my stash of note cards and a lot of times I find him pulling out cards to write his own little messages in them to various people. 

I appreciate the willingness of Ms. Ellen to keep in contact on a regular basis through e-mail communication.  As a former teacher, I know the importance of keeping in contact with parents in order to help kids succeed and keep parents informed of their progress but is still yet another task added to a teacher's lengthy to-do list, so I am grateful Ms. Ellen kept in contact with us this way during the school year.

This year was Eli's first experience with a (long) bus ride, one of the first ones on in the morning and one of the last ones off at the end of the day.  He seemed to enjoy his bus driver and would routinely come off the bus at night with a piece of gum from the driver, Paul.  The bus arrived promptly at 7:31 each morning and dropped him back off at 4:10 in the afternoon.  Eli knew how to tell the time and watched the clock in the morning and knew just how much time he had left yet before he had to be ready to go.  A kid with an eye for details, Eli learned over time which kids rode which buses and the names of the other drivers.  He became intrigued by the whole bus barn routine and how the logistics worked.  He transformed all his transportation-type toys into "buses" and little toy people into passengers and placed them strategically around the house and appeared to have routes for each bus.  Once all the passengers were loaded up, he would drive them all so they were parked into a large oval shape, which must be what happens at the bus barn when the kids exchange buses before they arrive at their final destination.  He plays this version of his own "bus barn" every.single.day! 

Eli also ate school lunch every day.  The parent-teacher organization sponsored a week where parents could choose a day to eat lunch with their child.  Ian and I ate lunch with him that Monday.  Plus, this reflects the nerd in me but I have always loved school lunch!  It was one of the perks of being a teacher too - I ate school lunch every day.  There was nothing better at that time of day than enjoying a good hot meal that I didn't have to prepare myself with some adult interaction in the lounge.  It was neat to see Eli interacting with his class in his school environment and to catch a glimpse of a part of his day.  I would LOVE to be able to take a peek during the course of his school day without him knowing I am observing just to see what he is REALLY like at school...



Ms. Sherri, the classroom associate, also had an impact on Eli.  One night after we were in bed for a while, I heard Eli get out of bed, seemed to be on a mission to do something and then I later realized he pulled out some paper and a pencil and was practicing writing the number 5.  It was almost as if he had forgotten about how he learned how to write the number 5 that day until he was in bed for the night.  He then came into our bedroom to show me that Ms. Sherri had spent extra time that day with him working on learning how to write the number 5, which was evident on his paper showing me the well-executed writing.  He was so proud of himself for the new skill he learned and seemed to enjoy Ms. Sherri's special help!

Overall, this has been a great year of growth for Eli academically with some goals yet to continue working on socially.  I am so thankful this all day, every day transitional kindergarten program is offered in our district.  It is a great bridge for him to get ready for a more traditional kindergarten setting this fall at Sacred Heart. 

Monday, May 15, 2017

18 Months


Today Aliyah went to her 18-month doctor's appointment.  She weighed in at 23 pounds, 13 ounces (63rd percentile) and measured 32.6 inches (71st percentile). 

In the past 6 months since the previous update, the biggest milestone she has reached has been learning to walk around 15 months.  She is also quite the climber, now able to get herself on the furniture.  She has become a master of crawling up the stairs at a pretty fast pace and scooting back down. 



As for her language development, Lia is able to understand what she hears more than what she is actually able to say yet.  She is an observer.  She is able to keep herself entertained. 

Aliyah is a true Daddy's girl.  Ian has a soft spot in his heart for his daughter, too.  One weekend when both kids were spending the night at my parents' house, he was wondering how she was doing since she sometimes finds it a bit of a challenge to be somewhere other than home.  He mentioned that she was his "little buddy."  Aliyah knows when Ian comes in the house in the late afternoon he almost always will take her outside with him for a while.  If he doesn't grab her coat right away, she will point to it indicating she wants to go outside and gets really upset if he goes back out without her. 



Lia also enjoys playing with Eli especially now that they are able to be more interactive together.  They spend lots of time playing with the types of toys they can push around the house.  She loves to be outside and go for both stroller and shopping cart rides. 













While Aliyah cried during her first haircut, she doesn't seem to mind it as much anymore and sits on my lap content while her hair is trimmed now.  Now that she is even more mobile she would rather stay on the move than stay in one spot for too long.  Aliyah is still not a big fan of the car wash and is relieved when it is over.  When other people try to talk to her in stores, she becomes wide-eyed and cautious and will oftentimes reach out to be held by me.  She is wary yet of unfamiliar people.  At this age, Eli had a couple of favorite TV shows he liked.  Lia seems to have no interest in watching any TV yet. 

Oatmeal, graham crackers, maid-rites, fruits, and of course the occasional treat (especially donuts, cookies, and ice cream) are food favorites of Aliyah.  She can eat just about any type of food and a variety of textures even still with just her 5 teeth (2 on the bottom and 3 on top).  She loves her milk and still prefers just plain water to juice.  She is learning to use the fork more effectively as well. 



About a month ago, Aliyah traded in her 2 naps a day for just 1 afternoon nap.  She goes to bed between 6:30 and 7:00 at night, and I get her up at 7:00 in the morning to get ready for the day. 

When Aliyah turned a year old, she started going to daycare on a daily basis.  As expected, it was a very challenging transition for her.  I often left as she was crying at drop-off, and even when I returned at the end of the day to pick her up, she started crying again (maybe she was mad at me or my mom's theory - she was relieved to see me again and expressed it in more tears).  She refused to nap there for about 3 weeks straight, so I would pick her up after lunch so she could take at least an afternoon nap at home in her own crib.  One day after that, she decided to take a morning nap at Barb's house.  Another time, she took an afternoon nap.  S-l-o-w-l-y but surely she became accustomed to her new routine and would take 2 naps there so she was able to stay all day.  The crying lessened and then stopped altogether.  She became friends with another little girl around her age there, and those two would seem happy to see each other.  Now when I drop Lia off in the morning, she goes off and plays right away, gives Vivi (her little friend) a hug, or reaches out immediately for Barb to hold her.  When I ask Lia if she is ready for Barb's house as I am getting her out of her car seat in the morning, she responds with a big grin from ear to ear, scrunches her nose, and squints her eyes.  The only other time she has the same response is when you ask if she wants a treat, so going to Barb's house now must be a treat for her!

Mirror, Mirror

As Aliyah has been sneaking into the bathroom lately while I have been getting ready to go somewhere, this image sparked this blog post.  





I could not help but allow the memories flood back into my mind of a time when I was younger, looking into a mirror creating my own self-image.  Fast forward to present day and I find myself thinking of all the lessons I want my own daughter to learn as I notice how Lia watching me in the mirror reflects back pure innocence in her big bright eyes.  There is so much she has yet to discover about herself, about her world.

As we raise this next generation of girls, so much has changed from when I was growing up, yet there are still some constants that remain the same.  Even though women have made great strides throughout our history, we still find ourselves in a somewhat male-dominated world.  I'm sure most of those in the female population would agree it's not always easy being a girl and all that comes with this gender territory.  From growing up and navigating our way while attempting to find out where we belong and which type of group of friends we feel most comfortable with all the way into adulthood and motherhood, there can be many challenges along the way.  It is a mother's privilege and honor to be able to carry a baby throughout pregnancy.  Only a mother knows the emotional and physical aspects of what this entails.  While fathers have taken on even more of an active role in child-raising especially in today's world of working moms, the day-to-day tasks of parenthood and running a household still seem to revolve around mothers as the center. 

Girls can sometimes have to deal with the sting of hurtful words while growing up at the expense of trying to fit in where they feel the most comfortable.  It is so hard to remember at such a tender young age that true beauty lies within, not in maintaining the "ideal" body type or wearing the "right" style of clothes or even attempting to combat blemishes that arise that are one of the temporary challenges during the transition to young adulthood.  The focus needs to shift from the more material and superficial aspects that society tends to place so much emphasis on to the attributes of a person's true identity; being confident in who we are, using our strengths to overcome our challenges and allowing ourselves the gift of self-acceptance - these are the qualities that when given the chance to shine truly radiate a sense of beauty from within.  By society's standards even those who may not be considered attractive for any number of reasons can still radiate a true sense of beauty by the way they carry themselves or even in the clothes they wear in a way that accentuates their features.  Those people with a magnetic type of personality that have a way of drawing people towards them just by who they are radiate a sense of attractiveness. 

We can sometimes be our own worst critic.  The way we see ourselves and the way we perceive others see us may not always align.  We need to let go of the "what if?" questions that arise from the anxious parts of our brains that pertains to others' notions and strive instead to be the best version of ourselves that we have been created to be; we cannot control the thoughts of others.  Ideas of what we think others may be thinking of us may be blown out of proportion anyway.

My message to you, my daughter, is this:  Being a girl in this world is not always easy.  True beauty comes from the inside.  A sense of self-confidence, self-acceptance, the ability to use your strengths to overcome challenges, your willingness to spread kindness and be a good friend - these are the attributes of a beautiful person.  Just remember when you see your reflection in a mirror, you, my daughter, are beautiful inside and out and always will be in my eyes.