Friday, October 30, 2015

Happy Halloween...

...from our little Minion and pumpkin!


Welcome to the World, Aliyah Ann McDonald!



Aliyah Ann entered the world on Tuesday, October 27 at 12:22 p.m. weighing in at 8 pounds, 6 ounces and measuring 21 inches long.  As with Eli, since I was overdue, we had a planned induction scheduled for Tuesday morning.  
Here is her birth story:  On Monday night, Eli was dropped off at Gramary and Papa Ron's house before we left for the hospital Tuesday morning.  We arrived at the hospital at 7:00 a.m. the next day.  They started an IV with Pitocin right away to get things going.  After about an hour, I could feel the contractions.  Over time, they started getting stronger and began coming more frequently.  The order for the epidural went in before the pain became even worse.  Just like last time, the epidural resulted in a one-sided block where my left side was numb but I could still feel my right side.  This time, though, they attempted to maneuver the epidural catheter so it would get into the right space in the spine to provide more complete pain relief whereas last time they added in fentanyl through the IV, which made me feel much more woozy and not as alert as I was this time.  Even with this different approach of trying to numb the right side, it still wasn't working and the contractions just kept coming more frequently and were much more intense.  Just as I was about to prepare myself to have to push through the rest of the contractions with this pain, they checked and realized I was ready at that time to start pushing.  As soon as I turned from lying on my right side to my back, the epidural finally started working and I had 100% pain relief while pushing, which lasted only about 10 minutes.  Overall, this labor was much shorter, around 5 hours compared to 18 hours last time with only a minimal amount of time spent pushing compared to 3 hours of pushing last time.  Aside from experiencing absolutely no pain during the end, I was much more alert and felt calmer and can still hear the sound in my mind of her very first cry.  

During our hospital stay, Aliyah remained a very content little baby girl.  She had a lot of mucus that had to be sucked out to clear her nose when she was first born and is still a bit congested at times, but the nurse said this should resolve on its own.  She is a good little eater.  She started off taking an ounce of formula every 4 hours and just recently started taking 2 ounces during a feeding.  She spent most of her time in the hospital sleeping and is still doing so at home.  The second night of our stay, one of the nurses asked if they could use Aliyah as part of a baby bath demonstration in their parenting class that night, so she was able to participate in that.

 

We enjoyed all our visitors during our time in the hospital, most especially big brother Eli.  He just adores her and has really exceeded my expectations in his big brother role as he loves to help out and is very gentle with her and curious about all the facets of the life of a newborn.  He shows a genuine concern and compassion for his little sister and really has a big heart for her.  We are happy to be back at home and are settling in now as a family of four.




























Thursday, October 22, 2015

40 Weeks






Today marks the 40-week point of this pregnancy.  I have reached the due date, a day after my birthday.  While I have not felt any contractions yet, I have been progressively dilating from 2 to 3 to now 4 cm at my appointment today while remaining 50% effaced.  I thought I might go into labor on my own this time at this rate, but it still hasn't happened, so the doctor scheduled an induction for next Tuesday. 


During this last trimester, final preparations have been taking place from hospital bags being packed to planning the baptism and more recently giving the house one final good cleaning, stocking up on groceries, and scheduling a maternity photo shoot.



Eli also attended a sibling class at Finley in the beginning of the month.  It was held on a Monday night, so he didn't seem to be the most attentive (I thought a Saturday morning might have worked better for young kids).  However, I was impressed with the 2 nurses who led the class.  They began by sharing a book about a baby's life inside the womb up until birth.  They also helped the kids learn how to put a diaper on a baby doll.  The most useful information they shared included different ways the older siblings can be helpful along with basic safety guidelines to keep in mind around newborns.   The class also included a hospital tour of the maternity ward.  The night concluded with each of the kids creating a birthday card for the new little siblings.  Other souvenirs included handmade rattles they each picked out and a coloring book and certificate to take home.  



With Emma's arrival in September and Aliyah's debut right around the corner, here is a story worthy of sharing:  My mom sent me this picture of a pink flower that she noticed soon after Emma's birth:

At first, she thought it blew out of the nearby flower bed full of flowers Megan always plants for Mother's Day.  When she went to pick it up, she realized it was firmly rooted in the ground!  The first thing I thought of was it must be a sign from Grandma and Grandpa Winter looking down on all of us with the arrival of this new baby.

Megan mentioned to Mom about how it would really be something if a purple flower appeared next (my favorite color).  A couple days later, Mom sent me another picture of just that!  True story!  




Not too far from the first pink flower that started growing outside of the flower bed, a purple flower began to bloom.  She thought it might even be growing now before Aliyah is born before it gets too cold outside.  I have never witnessed any type of sign like this before, but I truly believe it is one from above, especially with both girls sharing the same namesake of my grandma, Ann, as their middle names.

Dear Aliyah,
The time is fast approaching when the end of this pregnancy will mark the beginning of your life out of the womb.  We are so excited to meet you, and Eli is ready to begin his role of big brother.  I wonder a lot about who you will look like; I think you might resemble a combination of Eli and cousin Emma.  I also find myself daydreaming a lot about what it will be like to raise a girl now and what your little personality will be like. 

I imagine Eli as a gentle, protective, and proud big brother.  Since he is 4 years older than you, he has a good understanding of how the family dynamics are about to change.  There still might be some adjustments for him, but I think he will gradually become accustomed to his new position in the family. 

We are looking forward to your arrival and can't wait to begin this next chapter of our lives as a family of four!

Love,
Mom, Dad, and Elijah

Sunday, October 11, 2015

Emma's Baptism

 

Today, we celebrated Miss Emma Ann's baptism, which took place after mass this morning at Saint Patrick's in Cedar Rapids.  She is still such a content little baby; not a peep could be heard from her all during mass and the baptism.  The dress she wore was white with a few touches of pink that matched her little socks and shoes perfectly.  Jamie had given the dress to Megan as part of her baby shower gift, which was even more fitting since Jamie along with one of Jeff's friends were the godparents.  She even underwent a partial wardrobe change with an exchange of headbands. 

After the baptism celebration, we enjoyed lunch at Pizza Ranch along with the most delicious cake (seriously, it is the best; the same lady who made the cake for Megan and Jeff's wedding created Emma's baptism cake).  Of course, Emma would have sophisticated flavors for her first cake - pink champagne and raspberry. 

It was a great day celebrating Emma's first sacrament.   She is truly loved by all:)



 

 The godparents

  Jeff's daughter, Kim 

 Grandma and Grandpa Sabers

  Grandma and Grandpa Nelson

 
 One of the favorite gifts - a handmade headband holder crafted by Aunt Jamie

 Eli just adores Emma, from her head to her toes!